Strange Query !!
Last Sunday, while reading the newspaper, my friend told about a query some person had written to get solution from the counselor. The query was somewhat like this “I am an unmarried guy & presently share room with my girlfriend. Next month my mom is coming to see me. She doesn’t know about our relation & I don’t want to tell her now. I can’t ask my girlfriend to leave as where she will go alone. Should I ask my mom to cancel her trip or should I book a room for her in some hotel?” On top of it that fellow asked “Do I sound a bad son?”
The first thing I remembered after listening this was about Sid. My friend is extremely opposite to that guy. Sid has a girlfriend, other day while we were talking on phone, I asked him what do you like the most in her and he said ‘honesty’. He said “she is extremely honest about our relation. When we go out for lunch, she is the first one to tell my mom on phone that we were together this afternoon.” Sid’s parents don’t know that he likes her & wants to see her as his life-partner but they appreciate her honesty as a friend.
Now, about the guy with that query. First of all, why can’t people solve their problems themselves & why do they go for counselors. Probably, then what will happen to the earning of these counselors ;-). I simply do not understand that how can that guy think like this and above all he is himself questioning “Do I sound a bad son?” I say does he has any doubts about it.
If the girlfriend of the fellow knows about this problem then she should be sensible enough to go and live for at least some days with some other friend. But if she knows the problem and both have together written this query to get a solution then I think that girl is an idiot to the core as how can she think this guy will be faithful to her when he has forgotten his mom who was with him for so many years in his life…?? (some may argue that she may have some personal reasons or for others she can be smart enough to live with that person )
I do not like guys who try to pose different by saying that they don’t care much about their family or relations. If people cannot openly accept a relationship, why do they have it? I feel, it is the hiding the truth which spoils the sanctity of any relation.
Can you forget....??
Flatter me ,and I may not believe you.
Criticize me, and I may not like you.
Ignore me, and I may not forgive you.
Encourage me, and I will not forget you.
Love me, and I will be forced to love you.
~ William Arthur Ward ~
ps. So true, any heart in this world can be won by only one thing and that's love.The form,context and expression may vary.Reciprocate to the person who loves you,with love and nothing else.Because a person who loves us from the core of the heart,succinctly,wants nothing from us but LOVE.If someone loves you,that person can flatter you, criticize you,ignore you, encourage you but would never forget you.Do you think you can forget such a person.........??
A small addition: If you have forgotten that person or that person has forgotten you, you both never loved each other.But if someone remembers you even being far away from you,then that person really loves you.Don't loose such a person...you rarely get them....
WE are never apart........!!
Never think "WE" are away.
I also observed it just now.
Look at your keyboard,
I & U are so close,
Close to such an extent that even 'W' & 'E' makes here a "WE".
Isn't it a nice observation by me..?? ;-)
What should be the grammar of our life??
Had plenty of time today so felt like playing with English grammar ,here's a bit of it:
Live in active voice ,
not passive.
Live in indicative mood rather
than subjective.
Being concerned about what things are,rather than what they might be.
Live in present tense, carrying forward the duty in hand,
without regret for past or Worry for future.
Live in first person, criticising yourself,
than finding faults with others.
Live in singular number,caring for approval of your conscience,
than waiting for an applaud from crowd.
And if you are looking for a verb to conjugate,
then there is no better verb than "love".
Live with the gerund "loving" those who love you
than with gerund "hurting" them.
Climb High
Read these inspiring lines as i reached my desk today & opened my mailbox.
"I will climb this mountain.
They have told me it is too high,too far,too steep too rocky & too difficult.
But it's my mountain .
I will climb it.
You will soon see me waving from the top or dead on the side from trying."
After a long holiday,I am refreshed.
Am I Drunk.....??
"Music is the wine which inspires one to new generative processes, and I am Bacchus who presses out this glorious wine for mankind and makes them spiritually drunken."
~Ludwig van Beethoven
It is a matter of choice how you would like to get intoxicated...materialistically or spiritually...temporarily or for life!!
Note:Bacchus is Greek God of wine,commonly known as Dionysus.
